Mommy Monday: Pregnancy Pains, Take It Easy Mom

I can't believe I haven't talked about the labor pains a woman goes through while going through the whole pregnancy. A Mom has so much going on besides oh, I don't know carrying a baby for just about nine months. There Is so much more that comes into bringing another life into your world. Which will now become our world, for you and your baby.

From day one there are so many emotions and physical changes that go on. Weather you get morning sickness or not, it's there. Or how about those cramps you get out of no where. Or when your sleeping or even trying to take a nap the baby starts having a party in your belly? Most women don't even know what do with all that pain. I've seen it first hand, I get pretty nervous seeing my friends or family having to go through that. It's very difficult but a very magical time.

Now don't get me wrong there are some that just have it pretty easy breezy. But every mom has a life as well, and that's what I'm here to talk about, taking it easy when you can and just stop, put everything on hold, and think of you and that little one and no one else.

Step one: relax when you can. If someone is telling you "hey ill massage you're feet" or "let me cook for you tonight." Let them, rest and be thankful. And very glad that you have others so willing to help you.

Step two: do what's right for you. Don't let any bad mistakes effect you and your baby. Now I'm not saying that your perfect or to be perfect by any means. But! What I am saying is to take it easy. Don't go calling up your ex and having a screaming match or trying to take a huge load of laundry out the washer with a huge belly and back pains. Mothers please take rest if the doctor recommends it. If someone is offering you the help, be smart and take the help don't be a fool and try and take the hard road. If you have help take it, don't abuse it.

(I've learned that rule from the mommy a that I've interviewed so far on mommy Monday)

Step three: when that day comes, that you get to hold you're baby in you're arms cherish that moment for life. When that day comes everything changes. All the fights and your old life is no longer you. Well unless you fall back into that old bad life then I suggest, not to go back to that life. All the fights might not change just because a new life is upon you. so don't think its all that magical, it truly is a whole new world. sleepless nights, struggles and all. Everything will come up even more tough and way more hard. Again... Sleepless nights, baby gets sick, someone's won't help, or maybe someone just needs sleep. Some stay wide awake and then things get hard, things might happen. But the point of step three is: no matter what happens do what's right for you and your baby. That baby is the one that will forever change your life, will always have half of your heart.