So Proud Of Jacob!

  Can you guys belive my little cousin is growing so fast, he made the honnor role! go jacob! i love you dirty dan lol

Advice From Rob: Making Peace With The past

  we all have a past and to deal with it, thats very big its something huge! the best way ive found how to deal, is to just stop avoiding it and deal with it and go through it.

hope this helps.Smile!

I Have A NEW Job!

    Im so excdited to finaly tell yous guys that..... I have a new job!!!!

   I love it its so fun everyone is so nice and kind and its really nice and refreshing ive been working my ass off and working my ass out! but i just wanted to update you guys on what was going on ive been a little m.i.a being busy with work and workouts. ive been looking for a job for a while since my old job closed down. but im more excited now about this job I feel more diffrent. I feel better about this job now i just have to  get more busy and put everything into it. I thank you all for your support. all of my freinds and family for helping me out, all of you know who you are its going to get good from here on this Roller soaster ride thanks again everyone i love you all so much i send smiles and hugs from lucy and I.

-dont forget to smile and get excited,love Rob

Here's The Story: About My Last Job

The truth about my last job. I don't like to lie. But what I have noticed is when I'm scared I lie and hurt people. It's not intetional by any means, it's what I've noticed now giving my self and others time and space away it's what I noticed it's what I have done. The damage was already done I never like to lie because it's bad and also I like to be truthfully honest no mater what. I love where I worked at so much, but they were closing down at the mall where I live so, I had 3 weeks left to work there and also find another job. I was doing so much with so much help from my friends that I appreciate so very much and I hope they know that. But with so much other stuff going along with lossing yet another job again it was to much. I didn't give it my all I should have but I didn't I wasn't making it my buisness. Which was very wrong of me to do. So that was a mistake I made and a lesson I learned. That was me coming from a place of no, for the first time in my life. But now I've grown, making more mistakes but leanring so much and to ask for help and to be more vocal on how I feel. I'm also coming now more then ever from a place of yes, like my idol bethenny frankel and my friends Marco Kike and Juan have taught me and my family Tia Lupe Terri Jessica and Tia yoly. But as they and I say practice what you preach and talk is cheap. So I will be out there busting me ass to walk the walk as I talk the talk. Thank you love -Rob

Proud Cousin! Congrats Angel!

  Im so very proud of my cousin! hes acomplished so much! and going so far in life he is a straight A student works hard saves all his money. reaches his goals in life, cares for his family and loves us all so very much hes a great cousin, brother,son, grandson,and freind, but most of all my cousin angel! i love him so much and so very proud of you for graduating high sschool! your going to go very far cant wait to see whats next to come of you :)

Summer Is Almost Here!

 With just 22days away till summer is officailly here are you guys as excited as i am? im working out everyday and eating right i dont want a repeat of last summer. that was the worst for me ill be sharring my workout tips and what i can here on my blog so follow me on twitter so we can tweet back. follow me on twitter


 Remember to stay safe do what you can and what works for you! and drink tons of water! good luck and go push yourself!

Happy Memorial day, Thank You!

Happy Memorial day thank you to all the brave men and woman who do so much for us all. It means the world to me, my dog, friends and family! you all are all soo ahmazing and so very brave!

Advice From Rob: SEX

lets talk about whats on everyones mind oh yeah i went there lets talk about sex lol! ahhh have fun.

Where Ever I go.

We all here those sayings where people say "ugh i hate my family" or " you cant choose the family you were born into but you can choose your friends". I remember a qoute in middle school my art teacher gave us "show me our friends and ill show you who you are"

 Shes was a kind and smart woman. I always say and i mean it, that the people that are around me ill always care for no matter what with all my heart! no mater if things get rough ill be there for them no matter.Once i say ill potect you im there! i can have no money in the bank no food in my fridge but ill be there with open arms hugs and my llife and love and anything i can to be there.

 Freinds become your family. I remember growing up seeing people in gangs and knowing some of them had no family, that was there family. as bad as it was that really its there family bad or bad or good they protected one another no mater what they made a commitment! or when teens are in "cliuqes" at school thats there family, some look forward to going to school just for that, i know i was one of them. i Iwould see it first hand and then some.

 Life has this fun way of saying "hey, your not alone" I have my dog my friend marco told me that my family is what i make of it no mater what anyone says. Hes right! he told me lucy and i were family! also who ever i alow into it just like Marco,kike& juan are my new family ill always protect them! and as for julie eliu patty saul milo elizabeth yesy brenda franka and alba. were a family just like my real biological family is. and i love my tia lupe tia yoly teresa and jessica.

So the point is no mater where you are or who you are it doesnt mater what people can and will say about your family. if your happy with your dog or your kray friends well, then thats all you need and no ones aproval.

Im a lion i will always protect my cubs no mater wha.t till the end of time where ever i go. ill always be there for yous guys no mater what I hope yous know youll be with me where ever i go on this roller coaster life of mine.

Truth Heals,Denial Hurts.

  When so many of us are conflicted with eaither telling others on how we truly feel or on admiting something to ourselves, we go on with the old saying to others and in our head with "truth hurts"

If you can admit to yourself that what is right is right and what is wrong well.. is wrong then you can heal your self. most people cant tell the truth from a lie. Ill admit it I was one of "those people" I lie to pretend its alright but its not and I did for so long if i just say im sad or hurt then I would be healing my self in the process. but since I never did and said "Im fine, Everythings okay" that  wasnt healing that was hurt. I would have been best to say how I felt, like that other old saying "the truth will set you free"

Next time someone tells you "truth hurts doesnt it?!" you can raise your head and smile because you know it doesnt. It will hurt more to the person who is in denial.

A voice

we all have a voice.
weather we know how to use it or chose to share it is up to us we can say what we feel out loud and screem and say waht we feel but we have to use it!


when were scared our voice gets lost in the mixed of our emotions and life its self aamong other things. we lie when we dont know we are angry with the ones we care for we hide behind something that isnt us. we have to own it at everytime anytime and speak up on how you feel if you dont you will just wash away in the mix of it all and fade oh so very fast with everyone. then you are not you.

so next time you feel something on your mind, you feel hurt or sad or mad or even you need to stand up for yourself do so its a voice within its YOU.