A Back Up Plan isn't just for the movies, it's real life as well. Mommy's all over the world need one and have a Back-Up plan from A-Z even daddy's and moms and dads that are just beginning already have one.
Here's a few ways to have an action plan a.k.a your very own back-up plan. To let you know everything will be alright and to set you're own up today!
1. Always make sure your prepared for anything to go wrong. Now I know that sounds odd, but it's a very good rule. Things don't always go as planned so when something goes wrong, don't over think it and dwell on it. Just act on it and head on over to plan b! Your backup plan.
2. I always make sure, as stress this rule myself. Is to make sure you have an emergency fund. At any given time something can go wrong and when a child or in my case a dog which is my child, goes wrong you must have that emergency fund. I know it's hard even when you don't have anything. But that's why you also have a backup plan for that as well.
3. If you want a baby or in the process of having a baby, I want you to know that there won't ever be a time for you to "prepare you're self if it doesn't happen" things go wrong and things happen that's not your fault. You won't ever be ready for what life brings, you just have to be able to know that in the end everything happens for a reason. Don't ever forget to look around you and see all the wonderful things around you.
4. I want you all to know things go right and then things go wrong. But as my tia lupe always tells me "everything is temporary, and the bad stuff is very temporary you'll see" so don't be so sad and be the best that I know you can. I know that inside I you all the great moms out there know there you know your doing a wonderful job so here's to you having a back-up plan.